We All Have Consequences

In life, I’m starting to clearly understand that we all have to eventually answer to something we have said or something we have done. There is no way of escaping things that you do. You either reap what you have sown today, or it’ll creep around again later.

I am well aware of me being a control freak. I’m aware of me wanting to have things perfect (a little OCD), but I’m instituting things into my life to help me cope with these behaviors. I know the things that I want in my life and sometimes I get obsessively aggrivated and angry when I’m close to the end result, but it ends up being no cigar.

A lot of people come and go in this lifetime. You can’t just treat people like trash and think they are going to keep allowing you to dump junk in them. You can’t be hateful and nasty to others and think that you are supposed to be treated like royalty. You can’t think that people are punching bags, and they are never going to leave or check out on you.

In reality, we all have things about us that we need to really sit down, with God, a therapist or a friend and ask ourselves why did this happen to me? What happened in my life that has taken me in this direction? Why did this person give up on me? ETC!

Get a journal, or a piece of paper. Sit and write down things about yourself that if you honestly can say, would I want someone to treat me like I treat… (give a name)? What have I done to not be friends with this person (give a name), that person (give a name), and this person (give a name)? What did I do to deserve a response like… (name something).

Then list your good qualities, I know I am a….! I love this about me..! I am very good at..! Then list bad qualities. Do the bad overshadow the good? Do you have things and behaviors that you learned from others?

It all takes time to realize. But we all have to know that one day your actions, have consequences.